Finally going home again

Think back on your most memorable road trip.

With my car packed full of my life and starting in the San Fernando Valley ,California, and ending in Quebec, Canada,I drove by myself for the better part of a week stopping in Denver Colorado for a lovely visit with my stepdaughter on the way. It was glorious. Besides getting caught in a blizzard and having to spend a couple of nights in a little motel just before the border of Colorado and Nebraska. Who knew that April was a big month for snow there. Once I got out of the motel and onto the I-80,the weather remained lovely for the rest of the trip. It was a comfortable ride in my Mercedes E class with my CD collection blaring and my awful voice singing along with the likes of Janis Joplin, Tom Petty, Billy Joel, Elton John,Abba,Cher and Carly Simon and nobody yelling at me to stop singing for once. I was single again, and I felt free. It was the last time that I was able to drive a car. It was 4 years before my stroke. I really miss that feeling of freedom that only comes with driving… a car and not a wheelchair.

The whole trip was relaxing and just what I needed after leaving southern California and before coming back to my home country . It was a good time to reflect on the previous 18 years living in the USA and plan for my new life in Canada.

Teaching new wheelchair users

Come up with a crazy business idea.

It would have been good to have known the ins and outs of daily wheelchair use and obstacles, both physical and the public at large. It would have been great if, while still in hospital, I could have learned some self-defense techniques. I think it would have helped my confidence and lessened the worry about going outside alone.

It was Raggedy

Describe an item you were incredibly attached to as a youth. What became of it?

The one item that stayed with me the longest from childhood was a lovely and adorable bedside ceramic lamp with Raggedy Ann and Andy. I think that it was made by someone my mother knew. I loved the lamp. It was a symbol of my youth and innocence that met an unfortunate end when it fell off of my nightstand and broke when I was in my 20s, I think. It’s so long ago now that I don’t recall how old I was.

Canadian winter?

This photo was taken yesterday, January 9th, in British Columbia, Canada, on Vancouver Island. While we don’t see a lot of snow here, we don’t see many days like this one either. Temperature was 10 degrees Celsius or 50 degrees Fahrenheit… on January 9th…in CANADA! 

I really hope that we’re gifted a year without snow this year. So far, so good.

To educate people about the life-saving echocardiogram

What is your mission?

There is only one way to know if you have a tumor growing inside your heart. I talk about the fact that I’m paralyzed from a massive stroke that I had nearly 10 years ago. Sometimes, I forget to mention the cause of the stroke that very nearly took my life. I had a benign atrial myxoma tumor growing in my right atria for approximately 25 years . The tumor itself was 4 cm by 7 cm in dimension inside the smallest atria of my heart. Most people who have the tumor only find out because they suddenly die. Thankfully, it’s a fairly rare condition, but…

If this blog has a mission, it’s to get more people to preventatively get an echocardiogram  at least once in their life because if you are one of the unlucky people, like me, who have a heart tumor, IT WILL SAVE YOUR LIFE. Not to mention, prevent a massive stroke that might kill you, at most, or paralyze you for a decade or more.

The All Purples

If you started a sports team, what would the colors and mascot be?

First of all, my sports team would play Canada’s national sport of lacrosse. They would be called the all purples because the uniforms would be two different shades of purple. The mascot would be a snow leopard because I love big cats.

Bliss

If you had a freeway billboard, what would it say?

While I currently don’t have a freeway billboard, my picture was on a billboard back in 1999. It was a street scene, and I wasn’t the only person in the image. There was only one word on it. The word was BLISS.  Might have been for a band or something.