It’s been a while since I’ve shared a video from Gem at Wheels no heels and this one has inspired me to respond to the questions asked about wheelchair users on a Netflix show called You can’t ask that 😀.
Question 1 Why are you in a wheelchair?
Answer, because my left side is paralyzed and I can’t walk more than 30 steps without becoming exhausted.
Question 2 What are the perks of life in a wheelchair?
Answer, great parking spaces, as long as a non disabled person hasn’t parked there. Great public washrooms 🚻, as long as a non disabled person isn’t using it. Getting great treatment when at the doctor’s office or the hospital.
Question 3 Can you shower yourself?
Answer, yes and no. Because I don’t have access to both hands, I can’t wash my hair, so my husband does that for me, but I’m able to wash everything else. However, I prefer to take baths, and I use a bath lift to get into and out of the tub.
Question 4 Do you get mad when you see able bodied people being lazy?
Answer, only when they encroach into my spaces. For example, when I go to a show or concert and I’m seated in the disabled section next to someone who is obviously not disabled and who is only there because it’s better seating.
Question 5 Can you have sex?
Answer, Yes,though I don’t. And why is none of your business.
Question 6 Do you care if non disabled people use the disabled toilet?
Answer YES! It really pisses me off!
Question 7 How do you feel when someone says that you’re an inspiration?
Answer: If it’s someone I know, it’s lovely. If you don’t know me, it’s patronizing.
Thanks to Gem for the inspiration for this blog post, and I hope that answers some of your questions about being a wheelchair user.
Just remember it can happen to anyone at any time, and it’s nothing to be ashamed about.
