I have worn glasses every moment of my waking life ever since the eye doctor first strapped them to my head when I was 14 months old. I have what is referred to by optometrists as ‘special care eyes’, which basically means that I have blind as a bat-itis. I have multiple astigmatisms, my right eye has a tendency toward laziness, my lenses have a prism in them and I am far-sighted over all. I am grateful for my glasses. More specifically, I am grateful for the advancements made in the field of eyewear since that first pair was strapped to my head. No longer must I endure lenses made of glass that were so thick and heavy that they caused indentations on the bridge of my nose and on my cheeks. Frames have evolved from being a choice between horn rims or cat eyes to a veritable cornucopia of colours and styles with designer names like Chanel, Dior and Burberry. I still remember when the only famous name in eyewear was Sophia Loren. Ms. Loren was a trailblazer, taking the drab out of having to wear glasses.
Sophia made wearing glasses glamorous.
When I was growing up there was a saying, “Boys don’t make passes at girls who wear glasses”. On it’s face, this saying tells girls that you will never get a boy to be attracted to you because glasses are ugly and therefor make you ugly while wearing them. Remember the clichéd image of the plain Jane who takes down her hair and takes off her glasses and suddenly becomes gorgeous? I used to hate my glasses when I was younger, even going so far as to forego wearing them in social situations, even though I couldn’t see my own hand in front of my face, just because I wanted to be more attractive to men. When I look back at photos of myself at that age, I can now see clearly what I never could then, I was attractive with or without my glasses. If only I had the confidence to value my eyesight over my need for male attention. There’s a movie from 1953, starring Marilyn Monroe called How To Marry a Millionaire in which Marilyn’s character, Paula, who wears glasses, meanders around without them stumbling into things and even getting on the wrong plane just because she feels ugly with her glasses on. So ugly, in fact that she falls in love with the first man who tells her he likes her in her glasses. She even references the saying in a “cleaned up” 1950’s version, “Men aren’t attentive to girls who wear glasses”.
It nice to see how times have changed since then. Now celebrities are sporting their specs in public proudly. Some women like Tina Fey and Lisa Loeb have become known for their eyewear, not in spite of it.
Tina Fey is smart, funny and sexy.
Lisa Loeb looking sultry in her specs.
Last night I was watching an episode of the Big Bang Theory in which Penny puts on a pair of glasses and completely shatters the implication that glasses aren’t sexy (and proves that glasses might make you look smarter, but they don’t actually add IQ points).
I now wear my glasses confidently, with pride. I wear them like a fashionable accessory with different pairs for different looks or moods. I have come to the point where I not only need my glasses, but I love my glasses.
Women might not have evolved past our intrinsic insecurities surrounding our looks yet, but it’s nice to know that at least glasses aren’t as looked down upon as they once were.
Lovely post! As a fellow specky-four-eyes I found much to empathise with, especially the late realisation that glasses are WONDERFUL. Happy New Year!
I LOVE specky-four-eyes! Thanks for the giggle. Happy New Year to you too.
“Boys don’t make passes at girls who wear glasses”? I sure don’t remember anyone consulting this boy about that! In fact, I love glasses on a woman because I rightly or wrongly am in the habit of associating glasses with intelligence, sensitivity, and education.
Sophia was a trailblazer in other ways too, and she must have realised that behind specs one can wear masses more eye make-up. I cannot see well enough to put on eye make-up neatly even in a magnifying mirror and just think of the journo who described Brigitte Bardot’s as having been applied ‘cavalierly and with abandon’. Tina Fey is FABULOUS.
I would like spec-wearing men everywhere to realise it is quite sexy when they whip them off before getting into serious romantic action.
You are right glasses are wonderful! But i am weak I recently have gone over to lenses..
Paula finds her true love by bumbling around in fuzziness. I’ve always loved that. It’s when you aren’t looking, or, I guess, can’t see two inches in front of your face.
After a lifetime of boring and safe, I just got my first pair of blingy glasses. I pray not a mistake….